Should we use our heart or brain to decide on a following situation?
“You will lose everything if you decide to come with me. Take your own time to decide because you are going to risk your future”. It was a proposal of a married man to his unmarried ex-lover.
Here, heart and brain competed each other with solid and valid arguments and at last they decided to be together and they still believe that it is their destiny.
What is destiny?
Destiny bears many pet names like God, Fate or Time. Destiny is what happens to somebody or what will happen to someone in the future, especially things that they cannot change or avoid. Everyone’s life is decided or controlled by the destiny through out his/her life.
Some people are destined to succeed in their life and mine is full of ups and downs and each down was a shock treatment to me. Every time my inner consciousness reminded me, visions of the future are better than the dreams of the past. It boosted my inner self and gave extra power to break every barrier ahead my journey. Again another word is crossing me here, success.
What is success?
Does success stay at a point in life? The answer is an emphatic “no”. Success is not a point in our life but it is a continuous journey from one point to another. It is not so much where you stand in life but in what direction you are moving decides our success.
What matters in Life is the choices or decisions made by everyone. The success or failure of a person is completely rotating on the decisions taken at different situations. Even if a person is hardworking, unless there is a touch of fate or God, nothing will change in life. That touch will be a break or turning point in our life.
Destiny or Fate has played so much in life. Mostly it took the shape of simple words or individuals. I travelled to Maldives 10 years before with no intention of coming back, and I have been staying in India for last one year and the decision was taken on a Friday evening over a cup of tea without any preparation.
I am still confused whether destiny decides our choices or choices decide our destiny.
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Well, I believe be it choices or decisions, it had a starting point. A point why in the first place a conflict as such occurs.
The mind and heart are two different entities yet end of the day we follow the path shown by only one and the other silently accepts that path.